Getting the New Years Kiss

So most of us, including me, have been left sitting kissless on New Years Eve. It's not the worst thing in the world (Remember, love is not equal to happiness), but its a fun thing to grab a stranger and give a friendly New Years kiss to.

1. Who are you celebrating with? Make sure there are plenty of singles with you. Couples will probably kiss each other, duh! But don't be with a huge crowd, because it's hard to flirt, an people will probably act not happy if you randomly grab them and kiss them, especially if you're a guy and you try to kiss a girl.

2. Look amazing. Wear makeup and make your hair nice if you're a girl. If you're a guy, wear something respectable. I don't think guys realize how sexy a button up shirt is. And smile. This is the ultimate test of making a good first impression.

3. Randomly grabbing a stranger at 11:59 is not a great idea. Figure out who you want to kiss by 11:30 but always have a backup. Last year I was flirting heavily with a guy, but then with 5 minutes till midnight, his girlfriend came. I ended up kissing my best gay friend, because he couldn't find anyone there either. 

4. Here's my tip: If its a small enough group, watch the ball drop on the TV. Get a drink or something and come back when everyone's sitting down, and sit down next to whoever you're interest is on the couch. That way when the ball drops, its super easy to go in for the kiss.

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So anyways, I don't really have enough time to write an actual article thing. I want to go to bed, but first I need to shave my legs. 

Seriously girls, I would recommend ALWAYS shaving your legs. Just stick your foot in the sink and shave your legs. It takes like 2 minutes. But you just KNOW that if you don't shave, you're going to be flirting with a guy or doing something with a guy and they WILL notice.

But whatever. In case you read my previous article about last football game, you will be happy to know that I am going to be attending another football game. I don't know exactly what will happen yet, but I'll give you a hint.

We are playing a elite-ish preppy private school. I just happen to know a guy from that very school who will be playing that game. After we cream their team, he's going to stay behind and not go back to school on the bus like public school kids have to do.

We're going to go to Denny's (Hey! It's practically the only place open that late) and then we are going to *drumroll* watch a movie in the back of my car. And just so you know, my car is really long and I can put the chairs down to make a bed like thing. ;P

I'll keep you posted. Mwahaha...

Football game!

So of course yesterday was Friday, and Friday night at my school= football night. 

Football night isn't about the football. It's about the expierience:

3:15 Get out of school. Go to friends house. I'm gonna change the names in case someone actually knows me or whatever. So my friend Julia is the owner of the house. Her parents are really cool so we definitely start having a couple drinks. (Sadly, not rum and coke. Just bacardi and lemon.) 

So its me, Julia, Julia's boyfriend Conner, and Conner's friend Aaron. Julia and Conner have been dating forEVER so I get to hear ever single gushing thing she has to say about him.

I knew Aaron from before. We dated in like 6th grade, but that doesn't count much. BUt as Julia and Conner start cuddling and being all coupley, its just us 2 left alone. 

6:00 Julia's older sister drives us to the game. She's really cool but she has acid refluc and can't drink, so she drove. Yes, we are THAT responsible. Seriously, teenagers don't drink and drive as much as they want you to think.

So the 2 guys wanted to paint their stomachs and spell out GO (appreviation of our school). Having Aaron put cold paint on my stomach (thank god for all those crunches I did), definitly turned me on. Not in a gross way, just a I want to make out with you way.

8:00 We leave early from the game. Our team is really good and we were winning by a lot, and we got bored. We walk to a nearby mc donalds, sweaty and covered and paint. By this time I was flirting a lot with Aaron. I got an ice cream cone (the best ever!). I decided to share it with Aaron. Lets just say there was a lot of lip/tongue contact made during the ice cream.

9:00 We call Julia's sister and go back to Julia's house. Julia's parents are gone to a late party thing. A lot of alchohol was consumed, to put it lightly. With Julia and Connor basically passed out, Aaron and I started making out. As things started getting horizontal, I got really sleepy. But I guess Aaron was feeling really tired too because he just kind of rolls off me onto the floor and lies there looking at me. He says "lets do this again". And then I fell asleep. 

So this morning kind of sucked. But whatever it was fun. And even after I was sober, I STILL thought Aaron is cute, so we are gonna go out tomorrow. We're gonna go see a movie.

crush of the day : Justin Spring

Watching the USA men's olympic gymnastics team, one guy def. caught my attention: Justin Spring. He kinda looks like Prince Harry, but super talented. HOT!

How to Kiss Well...

Considering my more recent experience, I feel the need to elaborate more on the fine technique that is kissing.

1. Always keep your teeth brushed and everything. You don't want a piece of snitzel grossing the other person out. It takes just a little gross thing to turn the other person off. Try bringing mints or something like that, that way if you eat before, you're breath is fine, and you can just offer one to them to keep everything minty fresh.

2. Find a good situation. Dropping a girl off at her doorstep is good. Or in a car before dropping her off. Have a flirty conversation right before hand. Look at his/her lips more and more. When the conversation lulls down make a move.

3. Smile a little bit and move your head forward. Don't close your eyes yet, make sure the other person is moving toward you too. 

Don't freak out! While rejection IS a possibility, the flirty conversation you just had shows that he/she is SOMEWHAT interested. Besides, the person isn't going to just push you away. They'll probably go along with it. 

4. So your lips will touch. Now get into a more comfortable position. If you're a girl, put your hand on his head and the other somewhere else. Guys, put a hand or two on her back. Avoid the stomach area, that makes girls feel fat. 

5. ADVANCED- If you will be using tongue, the hygiene thing is super super important. Put your tongue at the edge of the other persons lips. They will open their mouth. Move your tongue around a little. I was told to write your name with your tongue. Just don't like touch their teeth or their cheek. That would be weird. Also don't open and close your mouth a lot. This might cause suction. While it looks good in the movies, it doesn't really do much good.

6. Withdraw. While it is convenient if you are interrupted, you will most likely need to withdraw eventually. Pull your head back and say "I have to go" or something like that. Don't just withdraw and leave. I once had a guy do that. It was so awkward.

7. Don't be too promiscuous, but kissing is fun, and you don't have to love the guy/gal you're doing it with. If someone you don't like(within reason) makes a move on you, go for it! Just look at them as practice. Sometimes its the "just friends" people who are the best kissers because you are so comfortable with them.

Lunch with Chuck

So since this site will be closed in 10 minutes I'll type fast.

Today I went to Apple-bees for an informal lunch date with an old friend. He is very cute in a tall awkward way, but he was very boring. I had to talk the entire time, and I DID give him opportunities to talk. I would ask him questions and he would just answer with the blandest answer ever. He's the kind of guy that seemed really afraid to offend me, and while it's probably a good idea not to get into heated debates on the first date, it was annoying. Like stop agreeing with me.

Afterwords, I went to his house to watch Epic Movie. It's a hilarious movie that I've seen a couple times, but watching it with him somehow made it super awkward. Like watching a movie with your parents. 

He asked me if I wanted to go up to his room. I was like really? We didn't click at all. I said I had to get home soon. I guess he really likes me, one of his good guy friends told me that. Ew. It's really awkward. I don't really know what to do about that.

Sorry!

Wow, I haven't posted in a long time. But I have to leave soon for lunch with a friend (A very cute friend who I haven't seen in years). I'll leave you with this gem:

Fernando Torres= hottest man alive.

IN case you didn't watch the Euro 2008 cup, Fernando Torres was a really good player from Spain. I definitely rooted for them from the beginning (not just because of Torres, he's just a perk). And Spain won! 

My roadtrip a couple of days ago was amazing. We sat in the car as we drove through the boonies for 3 hours. I worked on my summer reading because 2 of the people in the car were asleep.

Once we got there, it was amazing because my friend lives in the middle of nowhere so he has a huge huge house and lots of land. They even had horses that we could ride! It was so much fun.

During the thing we watched a movie and I definitly cuddled with the host, I mean it's only polite to. Haha. We were sitting on the same couch and he puts his arm around me, and then starts kissing my n

eck and stuff. Then we "went to go get pizza". Pretty much we ended up calling for delivery and making out in his BMW in the driveway until the delivery came. 

But the host is not the kind of guy who I would ever date. He's super rich and kind of snotty, and while he treats me really well, he's rude to waiters and my mum taught me that that is a warning sign.

But don't fret, on the way back I definitely made out with one of the guys who I actually like. He may not be as rich or whatever, but he's definitely sweet and nice to everyone. Plus his red pick up truck is surprisingly roomy. Haha.

ROADTRIP!

So this is a super last minute post but I feel that I need to get everyone psyched for this upcoming adventure I'm about to embark on.

I'm a junior counselor at a summer camp, and since all the junior counselors get really close, we are all meeting up and having a reunion. That basically 3 hour drive to go party. And I'm gonna be crammed in a car with 6 other people including some very tempting guys.

Let's just say the next couple hours are going to be very interesting. A car full of hot guys really does get your mind off of things ;)

To be continued.....